How is Visitation Determined During a Divorce?

by | Sep 10, 2021 | Custody

Getting a divorce when you have children is difficult. One of the main issues that couples run into is custody and visitation issues, or deciding how much time each parent should spend with their kids. You’ll need to figure out if one or both of you will get legal  custody, what the visitation schedule should be like, and more. It is also important to find the best family law attorney to ensure your custody and visitation rights are dealt with in a fair manner. Whipple & Mercado is a family law practice that can help you with any custody and visitation issues that may arise in a court proceeding. Read on to learn how visitation is determined and how we can help you.

What is Legal Custody?

Under California law, “joint legal custody” means that both parents share the right and responsibility to make decisions regarding the health, education and welfare of the children. (Cal.Fam. Code section 3003).  Joint legal custody is very common in California. However, there may be a situation where one parent may not be able to share in joint legal custody. (Cal. Fam. Code section 3085).

What is Visitation?

Visitation is the schedule set up by the court for child custody between divorced or separated parents and is different from custody. Visitation is the amount of time a child will spend with each parent. It’s important to keep in mind that both parents are equally important in raising a child and the Court determines the best interest of the child standard when considering visitation with both parents.  

How is Visitation Determined?

The courts will determine how visitation is handled on a case-by-case basis. Some couples are able to come to an agreement on a visitation schedule between themselves that works well for them and their children. However, if those parents can’t agree regarding visitation issues, then they’ll have take it up with the courts and a family law attorney can help advocate for you. Judges will normally make the final decision as to how visitation is handled. 

Visitation schedules should be tailored based on each family’s unique circumstances. For example, some families live far away from one another so they may decide that one parent only gets visitation every other weekend. Other families may be able to determine an exact schedule up front, but if the schedule changes over time then they may need to go back to court and have the visitation schedule modified. If one parent moves far away, the courts can decide that it is in their best interests to visit with the other parent more frequently. If parents cannot agree on visitation schedules, court orders will allow for certain provisions. The parent who is not granted primary custody can have an established schedule that the child spends time at each of their homes or some other arrangement where they are able to visit the other parent.

Are You Having Visitation Issues?

If parents are struggling with a visitation dispute, it can be beneficial to speak with an attorney specializing in family law. It is possible that their lawyer will help them reach an agreement with the other party regarding visitation issues without litigation, which can save time and money on court proceedings for both parties. If you are looking for legal help with these matters during your divorce process, contact Whipple & Mercado today for more information or assistance. Our team can answer any questions you may have and provide guidance on navigating through this tough time in life. Call us at  (925) 344-5050 if we can assist you with anything related to a divorce matter!

Tammy J. Mercado

Tammy J. Mercado has a passion for helping her clients achieve their desired results. She listens and she personally and promptly responds to your texts, emails and phone calls. She offers real solutions to your legal matters. Tammy will carefully evaluate the legal issues in your case, provide you with sound advice and offer you the pros and cons of each possible scenario so you can meet your legal objectives. She encourages clients to participate in their own matters. Tammy believes that client participation is key to a positive result and to keeping attorney fees as low as possible. You can be sure that she will offer you straightforward, sound and honest advice in a professional manner, with integrity and excellence.

Before opening her own law practice, Tammy worked for many high-volume law firms. This gave her extensive, diversified experience in hundreds of complex family law cases as well as civil matters. She is admitted to practice law before all courts in California and the United States District Court for the Northern District of California. She is also a member of the American Bar Association, the Contra Costa Bar Association, the Alameda County Bar Association and the Bar Association of San Francisco. Tammy is also a member of the Rotary Club of Danville.

Tammy is a graduate of John F. Kennedy School of Law and holds a Bachelor of Science in business management from the University of Phoenix. Tammy is also a licensed real estate broker, which comes in handy for valuing property in family law cases as well as real estate matters in the civil arena.

During her off time, Tammy is an avid sailor who crews and races on various boats in the San Francisco Bay. Tammy approaches each case as she would any yacht race: by assessing the other’s strengths, weaknesses, experience, equipment, history and reputation. She is a member of the American Sailing Association, and she is a certified Coast Guard Auxiliary member.

HONORS AND AWARDS
Tammy was selected to receive the prestigious “Business Person of the Year” Award in 2017 for the San Ramon Chamber of Commerce.

Tammy is currently serving as Danville Rotary President for 2017 through 2019.

Mary C. Whipple, CFLS

Mary C. Whipple opened her first law practice in the summer of 2008. She previously was an associate attorney at the Law Office of Cummins & Holmes, a full-service civil litigation law firm in San Ramon. The majority of her experience is in family law, which includes divorce, custody, support, prenuptial agreements and domestic-violence restraining orders. Certified by the California State Bar’s Board of Legal Specialization, she is a specialist in the area of family law. Mary has also represented clients in a variety of non-family-law cases, including juvenile dependency, probate, breach of contract and employment disputes, to name a few.

Mary also previously worked as a contract attorney for O’Melveny & Meyers in San Francisco while simultaneously volunteering at the Bar Association of San Francisco’s Volunteer Legal Services Program, representing defendants in unlawful detainer actions. The program acknowledged Mary with an Outstanding Volunteer in Public Service Award in 2006 for her efforts in providing access to justice.

A seventh-generation Californian, Mary is a graduate of Loyola University Chicago School of Law. She earned her Bachelor of Science in criminology at Southern Oregon University in Ashland, Oregon. She is a member of the State Bar of California, the Alameda County Bar Association, and the Contra Costa County Bar Association.

In addition, Mary is active in her community as a member of the Ambassador’s Committee for the San Ramon Chamber of Commerce; a volunteer at the Contra Costa County and Alameda County Superior Courts, where she assists self-represented litigants in completing their divorces; and a member of Divorce Angel, where she provides information regarding family law matters to members of the community. Since 2007 she has been a volunteer judge for Alameda and Contra Costa County’s Annual High School Moot Court Competition. She is also a member of the Danville/Sycamore Valley Rotary Club. She was awarded the San Ramon Chamber of Commerce 2012 Business Person of the Year; and a graduate of the 2012 class of Leadership San Ramon Valley.

CERTIFIED LEGAL SPECIALTIES
Certified Specialist in Family Law by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization