Divorce 101

by | Dec 10, 2019 | Divorce

While the story will be different for every couple, the steps to end a marriage remain the same. This guide is intended to be a general outline of the divorce process in California.

Filing for Divorce

California is a “no fault state,” which means the person filing for divorce can simply claim “irreconcilable differences.” A person must be a legal resident of the state where they file for divorce. In California, the rule is that you or your spouse must have been a resident for a minimum of six months. Additionally, you must have lived within the county where you are filing for at least three months prior to filing for divorce.

If you’re considering ending your marriage, the process begins when you (the petitioner) take the proper forms to the courthouse. The court clerk will charge a fee to file them (known as a first appearance fee which is currently $435), or you can apply for a fee waiver.

Serving the Divorce Papers

A third party who is at least 18 years old serves copies of those court forms to the other spouse (the respondent), and fills out a “proof of service of summons” to document this step. The “proof of service” demonstrates that the correct forms were used, and delivered in the right way.

The petitioner is responsible for returning the “proof of service” to the courthouse for filing.

Responding to the Summons

The respondent has thirty days to file a response with the court. If he or she chooses not to do this, the judge can end the marriage without hearing from both sides.

If the respondent does file paperwork, a copy is served to the petitioner by a third party. And again, this process is documented with a “proof of service,” which is filed by the respondent.  

The Financial Disclosure

Both parties must account of what they own and owe. Both parties have to fill out a preliminary declaration of disclosure which consists of a schedule of assets and debts and an income and expense declaration.  Supporting documents must be included, such as paycheck stubs, pink slips to vehicles, bank statements, credit card statements and retirement statements. This is required.

Discovery

Discovery is a process that allows either spouse to request documents and pose questions that must be answered. There can be five parts to discovery, but in the most basic terms, it’s an exchange of information.

Settlement Agreement or Trial

In California, the divorce process takes a minimum of six months and could stretch for a over a year or two. If a couple is unable to reach a settlement agreement on their own, they’ll need to go to court. Their divorce will not be considered legally complete until the court approves and signs a judgment.

Filing for divorce can be a complicated and overwhelming experience, especially when children are involved. Please contact us at Whipple, Mercado & Associates for legal guidance through this difficult time with initial free consultation.

Tammy J. Mercado

Tammy J. Mercado has a passion for helping her clients achieve their desired results. She listens and she personally and promptly responds to your texts, emails and phone calls. She offers real solutions to your legal matters. Tammy will carefully evaluate the legal issues in your case, provide you with sound advice and offer you the pros and cons of each possible scenario so you can meet your legal objectives. She encourages clients to participate in their own matters. Tammy believes that client participation is key to a positive result and to keeping attorney fees as low as possible. You can be sure that she will offer you straightforward, sound and honest advice in a professional manner, with integrity and excellence.

Before opening her own law practice, Tammy worked for many high-volume law firms. This gave her extensive, diversified experience in hundreds of complex family law cases as well as civil matters. She is admitted to practice law before all courts in California and the United States District Court for the Northern District of California. She is also a member of the American Bar Association, the Contra Costa Bar Association, the Alameda County Bar Association and the Bar Association of San Francisco. Tammy is also a member of the Rotary Club of Danville.

Tammy is a graduate of John F. Kennedy School of Law and holds a Bachelor of Science in business management from the University of Phoenix. Tammy is also a licensed real estate broker, which comes in handy for valuing property in family law cases as well as real estate matters in the civil arena.

During her off time, Tammy is an avid sailor who crews and races on various boats in the San Francisco Bay. Tammy approaches each case as she would any yacht race: by assessing the other’s strengths, weaknesses, experience, equipment, history and reputation. She is a member of the American Sailing Association, and she is a certified Coast Guard Auxiliary member.

HONORS AND AWARDS
Tammy was selected to receive the prestigious “Business Person of the Year” Award in 2017 for the San Ramon Chamber of Commerce.

Tammy is currently serving as Danville Rotary President for 2017 through 2019.

Mary C. Whipple, CFLS

Mary C. Whipple opened her first law practice in the summer of 2008. She previously was an associate attorney at the Law Office of Cummins & Holmes, a full-service civil litigation law firm in San Ramon. The majority of her experience is in family law, which includes divorce, custody, support, prenuptial agreements and domestic-violence restraining orders. Certified by the California State Bar’s Board of Legal Specialization, she is a specialist in the area of family law. Mary has also represented clients in a variety of non-family-law cases, including juvenile dependency, probate, breach of contract and employment disputes, to name a few.

Mary also previously worked as a contract attorney for O’Melveny & Meyers in San Francisco while simultaneously volunteering at the Bar Association of San Francisco’s Volunteer Legal Services Program, representing defendants in unlawful detainer actions. The program acknowledged Mary with an Outstanding Volunteer in Public Service Award in 2006 for her efforts in providing access to justice.

A seventh-generation Californian, Mary is a graduate of Loyola University Chicago School of Law. She earned her Bachelor of Science in criminology at Southern Oregon University in Ashland, Oregon. She is a member of the State Bar of California, the Alameda County Bar Association, and the Contra Costa County Bar Association.

In addition, Mary is active in her community as a member of the Ambassador’s Committee for the San Ramon Chamber of Commerce; a volunteer at the Contra Costa County and Alameda County Superior Courts, where she assists self-represented litigants in completing their divorces; and a member of Divorce Angel, where she provides information regarding family law matters to members of the community. Since 2007 she has been a volunteer judge for Alameda and Contra Costa County’s Annual High School Moot Court Competition. She is also a member of the Danville/Sycamore Valley Rotary Club. She was awarded the San Ramon Chamber of Commerce 2012 Business Person of the Year; and a graduate of the 2012 class of Leadership San Ramon Valley.

CERTIFIED LEGAL SPECIALTIES
Certified Specialist in Family Law by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization